HOW TO CLAIM BACK INDEPENDENCE

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Life has its ups and downs and nobody isn’t insured from the last. And thinking that negative events can not only have a big impact on our mood and emotions, but also completely transform us, our character and our mind is a bit scaring. But I believe that you do you and if there’s something that you can change or affect, you must get it under control. So if you don’t feel that you belong to you now, it’s time to claim back independence and here are three simple tricks how to make it happen.

 

DISCONNECT YOURSELF FROM NEGATIVE AND NEGATIVE PEOPLE 

 

I strongly believe that negative brings negative. And your family, relatives, friends and even just acquaintances can make an impact on you and play a great role in building your personality. I’ve come to this idea on my experience: when I distracted myself from girlfriends with bad relationships full of negative and stopped talking to them about it, I became more happy in relationship with my man and noticed that the number of our argues and unpleasant moments decreased significantly. You just have to realize that you can’t prevent people to bring you negative, but it’s only up to you whether accept this negative or not.

 

LEARN TO SAY ‘‘NO’’ AND LEARN TO SAY ‘‘YES’’

 

Acquire one simple rule: it’s ok to say ‘‘yes’’ and it’s ok to say ‘‘no’’. You don’t have to meet the expectations and make the wishes of other people come true. Everything genius is simple. If you don’t want to make something – then don’t make it. Be completely honest with yourself about your needs, feelings and wishes. Ask yourself ‘‘what do I want?’’ first, identify your needs and find a way to meet them.

 

DO WHAT YOU LOVE AND ENJOY YOUR LIFE

 

Life is too short to be someone you’re not in an attempt to please someone else and spend it on people who don’t treat you in a proper way, bad events or negative moments. Remove yourself from negative and start to live with a positive mind, because everything you do starts in your mind. Do what you love and enjoy every aspect of your life. Fails can happen to anyone. Remember the episode when Carrie Bradshaw fell on the catwalk? She rose and continued her way with a smile. You should do the same when life tries to pull you down.

 

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  • http://www.looking-glass.ca/ Maria | Looking Glass

    Such a cool outfit, love your sequin top! And great post too. Surrounding yourself with positivity and taking care of yourself is important x

  • http://yachtsmaan.blogspot.com Amber Baker

    These tips are so important! It’s nice to have a reminder, and your outfit is flawless. Way to make sequins perfect for daytime!

    Amber | y a c h t s m a a n

  • http://veryfashionplanet.com/ veronica

    So cool dear! Great photos!
    Passa a trovarmi VeryFP

  • Radulinka

    Great pics and post! Totally agree with you! Sometimes I care what will others say but now I know that I should not care about them and do what I really want…
    Meet My Lovely World

  • http://www.thestylefanatic.com James Benita

    I agree with disconnecting from negative things and people. Great write up. Have a nice day.

    xx
    http://www.thestylefanatic.com/2016/08/fashionably-late.html

  • http://www.miiju.ch mirjam

    Such an amazing look dear – and totally great advices! Couldn’t agree more!
    xx Mirjam // http://www.miiju.ch

  • http://www.kristenskouture.com/ Kristen Robin

    Love how you made this sequin top look cool and casual!

    http://www.kristenskouture.com | Luxury. Fashion. Lifestyle.

  • http://brightdecember.blogspot.com/ Maru Conti

    Beautiful outfit and great tips!

    http://brightdecember.blogspot.com/

  • Klaudia W

    I’m such a huge fan of you top, very glamorous indeed and looks awesome with the glasses :) Very inspiring post,

    http://kllaudiiia.blogspot.co.uk
    Klaudia :)

  • http://letucc.blogspot.de/ Leta G.

    Great post and nice pictures!

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  • MARTA

    Nice post and i love your outfit! Great combination!

    http://MartasFashionDiary.com/one-outfit-two-pairs-of-shoes/

  • http://xincerely.blogspot.com Xincerely

    Amazing photos, love the style!

    xx
    Xin

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  • Mariateresa Scotti

    Amazing outfit!
    xoxo
    Mary
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  • http://curlyjosephine.blogspot.ba/ Curly Josephine

    Gorgeous look! Love your style!

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  • http://awayfromtheblue.blogspot.com/ Mica

    You have shared some great advice in your post! :) Your sequin top is stunning too, what a nice mix of textures with the denim :)

    Away From The Blue Blog

  • Dressed With Soul

    I really love the perfect top!
    xx from Bavaria/Germany, Rena
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  • http://www.thekawaiiplanet.com Suzy

    SO STUNNING! ♥

    Happy New Week!
    xo Suzy
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  • StylNova

    Love the sequin top, photos and inspiration! I completely agree, everything starts with your mind and what you allow yourself to believe!
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  • http://melange-boutique.blogspot.com.es/ Melange-Boutique by Noe&Lolita

    Nice tips, really hard to be strong sometimes to do them all. Love so much how do you dress jeans up with the cool bright top

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  • Hun Tature

    This top is so dope! Perfectly styled!
    xoxo

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  • http://fashionablyidu.blogspot.com/ idu

    Great tips girl and you look absolutely perfect. Beautiful pictures.

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  • http://www.prettyinleather.net/ yuka

    great tips! and great look! I love the sequined top!

    http://www.prettyinleather.net

  • Marie Ebelt

    Such a beautiful top – love it !
    Kisses
    Marie

    http://www.whatiwearinlondon.com

  • http://chloedeguelder.wix.com/thecolorsandchloe ChoChlooo

    You once commented one of my blogpost and I might be a ghost sometimes but I’ve been seeing your blog since … I L.O.V.E i.t ! And this post is … otherworldly !
    Love from Paris !
    Chloé xxx
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  • http://thelondonthing.co.uk Tania

    Beautiful outfit doll! Love your pictures x

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  • http://fashionablyidu.blogspot.com/ idu

    I love the tips. So awesome and you look phenomenal. Such a cool top!
    http://fashionablyidu.com/

  • Francheska Irizarry

    Saying yes and no in the right time is so important. Sadly, I learned this too late. Also, Love your outfit so much. I would love to find a dress like your shirt. Talking about boyfriends, I learned that I do not talk about our stuff not even with best friends or family. It is a very fine line to cross and it can be dangerous. When I know someone is not happy about my decisions I just ignored it and keep living.

    http://francheskascollageblog.blogspot.com/

  • Audrey Reine

    Gorgeous outfit! Love the top.

    Come visit us soon!
    Love from Prague

    Audrey&Pearl
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  • http://svetinthesky.blogspot.ru/ Светлана Михайлова

    Классный образ и фото!

  • Svetlana

    lovely shimmer look!!!
    Kisses
    Svetlana
    http://capemaychic.weebly.com/

  • http://arelisapril.blogspot.com/ Areli Enriquez

    I’m dying over this top where is it from!!
    xx,
    arelisapril.blogspot.com