Life has its ups and downs and nobody isn’t insured from the last. And thinking that negative events can not only have a big impact on our mood and emotions, but also completely transform us, our character and our mind is a bit scaring. But I believe that you do you and if there’s something that you can change or affect, you must get it under control. So if you don’t feel that you belong to you now, it’s time to claim back independence and here are three simple tricks how to make it happen.
DISCONNECT YOURSELF FROM NEGATIVE AND NEGATIVE PEOPLE
I strongly believe that negative brings negative. And your family, relatives, friends and even just acquaintances can make an impact on you and play a great role in building your personality. I’ve come to this idea on my experience: when I distracted myself from girlfriends with bad relationships full of negative and stopped talking to them about it, I became more happy in relationship with my man and noticed that the number of our argues and unpleasant moments decreased significantly. You just have to realize that you can’t prevent people to bring you negative, but it’s only up to you whether accept this negative or not.
LEARN TO SAY ‘‘NO’’ AND LEARN TO SAY ‘‘YES’’
Acquire one simple rule: it’s ok to say ‘‘yes’’ and it’s ok to say ‘‘no’’. You don’t have to meet the expectations and make the wishes of other people come true. Everything genius is simple. If you don’t want to make something – then don’t make it. Be completely honest with yourself about your needs, feelings and wishes. Ask yourself ‘‘what do I want?’’ first, identify your needs and find a way to meet them.
DO WHAT YOU LOVE AND ENJOY YOUR LIFE
Life is too short to be someone you’re not in an attempt to please someone else and spend it on people who don’t treat you in a proper way, bad events or negative moments. Remove yourself from negative and start to live with a positive mind, because everything you do starts in your mind. Do what you love and enjoy every aspect of your life. Fails can happen to anyone. Remember the episode when Carrie Bradshaw fell on the catwalk? She rose and continued her way with a smile. You should do the same when life tries to pull you down.